People want to be happy but they don’t know how. We want a fulfilling relationship but often choose partners that are not aligned with who we really are and what we really want. People fall into “dating traps” and make unconscious partner choices based upon their attractions, assuming they can “make” a relationship work. Sometimes this works but more often than not it turns into disappointments and heartbreak.
Often, people realize the person they are with is not a good choice, but they don’t want to be alone. They will assume they can’t get what they really want or that all the “good ones are taken”. Others tell themselves that they are too old, too fat, too poor, or too unattractive to have a lasting relationship. If you allow these beliefs to linger, they are self-fulfilling.
Creating a good long-term relationship begins with taking the trouble to learn how to be very clear about whom you are and what you really want. One of the first steps in obtaining the life you desire is to love and accept yourself as you are, believe that you deserve to be loved and happy and that you will create the life that you really want. Relationship coaching provides the skills and tools for self-evaluation so you can determine your vision and life purpose – then reach for the life and relationships you desire.
I invite you to read more about what you can expect when using our services and the benefits others have derived from relationship coaching.
Benefits
Relationship coaching can help you learn how to let go of what doesn’t work and embrace a new way of thinking that can bring harmony and joy back into your relationship with your teen, partner or spouse.
- Identify where communication is breaking down
- Discover your personal communication style with your family/partner
- Understand and adapt to your family/partners communication style
- Discover your conflict style
- Avoid conflict situations
- Determine if you are free from your past relationships
- Learn to take responsibility for YOU in a relationship
- Speak to your partner in a manner that is informative but not attacking
- Obtain your voice your desires and needs are heard
- Become a supportive partner/family member
- Achieve your empowerment
- Get on the spot coaching
- Personal Relationship Coaching Minimizes Relationship Issues
What to Expect
The coaching process rests on a very specific frame of reference, and all coach behavior and interactions, including coaching questions, should reflect that frame of reference. According to my coaching frame of reference, all my clients are considered intelligent and well-informed people. I believe that my clients know all there is to know on the technical dimensions of their issues, either to solve their own problem or to achieve more performing results than those they have met in the past. Given this client expertise, I do not seek to find the answers or options that my clients have not already considered and or brushed aside.
As a professional coach, I do not focus on problems as they are defined by my clients but rather on the clients’ way of defining their problems. As coach, questions are formulated to assist the client in reconfiguring their frame of reference or perspective on their goals and issues which suddenly opens the pathways for them to discover new approaches to define and solve issues or achieve ambitions.
Each potential client schedules an appointment so myself and the caller can get to know each other and the caller can address how they feel coaching could benefit them in their current situation. It is very important that both of us feel good about the relationship and that each have their expectations identified upfront.
Once coaching is agreed upon by both parties, the client enters into a contract for a commitment of three months of coaching. Coaching sessions are by telephone and are scheduled conveniently for both parties on a weekly or bi-weekly basis for the same day and time of the week. Coaching sessions are usually 30 minutes in length. Relationship coaching is very affordable and can be obtained in the privacy of your own home. For a small investment to seek a fulfilling relationship, your life could begin changing today for as little as $100 per month.
How This Will Change Your Life
- Communicate more clearly
- Be more open
- Create deeper relationships
- Manage your emotions
- Face what is holding you back
- Be more confident
- Develop healthy bonds
- Rebuild relationships
- Enjoy more intimacy
- Increase authentic relationships
- Transform your love life
- Reconnect with people
- Live more boldly
What to Do Next
If you feel that a personal coach that listens intently to your thoughts and concerns, while maintaining complete confidentiality, can be of guidance and support for you in your journey, please contact me to schedule a complimentary session to discuss further how relationship coaching can help you grow a deeper, stronger relationship or provide the support you need to terminate an abusive relationship so you have the freedom you seek.